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Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

February 10, 2009

People Come and People Go

The most important thing to me are my personal relationships; starting with God, then my family, then friends, then close associates.  The value of a relationship is in how often you speak with someone in a positive energy flowing way.

If it were just by who you spoke with regularly, our bosses and co-workers would be our closest friends.  I'm just thinking about my facebook account, I looked up some high school ole chums and I didn't want to reunite because I honestly didn't feel I'd really benefit from getting back in touch with anyone.

We all must learn that people come into our lives, and people go.  I've lost a lot of friends from grammar school to my adult stage, some to death, moving away, or just plain old grew apart.  It's actually healthy; so we should embrace it and know that people come and people go.  

Take care see you soon

Due

October 21, 2008

Thinking You're Too Much


Thinking you're too much can post a problem in any kind of relationship because you begin to believe you are more than you actually are.  When you begin thinking you're too much; this can and will tip the scale on some if not all of your relationships.

What is "thinking you're too much?"  Well for one let's say you do something big on your job that a lot of people gave you credit for and everyone is happy you did this.  Coming in the next day as nothing significant happened would be humble and normal.  This may even help you receive more praise.  However, coming in and wanting flowers thrown at your feet underneath a red carpet is not normal.  In relationships; we as humans tend to believe we are too big to have to do certain things or deal with certain situations once we have reached a made up plateau.

We start to believe we don't have to do chores in the house, we don't have to do the extra on the job, we don't have to call people back immediately.  This is called getting relaxed, when in life, you should never actually be relaxed.  When you begin to turn into this direction, you will not notice it of course, but your associates and friends will notice a strain on the relationship.

Thinking you're too much is, to me, a disease that you don't know you have and the end is very deadly.  Take inventory of your life from time to time and make sure you haven't got to the point where you are too much.  I hope this edifies your relationships.

Peace from Dues Spot


Due Danielz