That is what we are suppose to do in life. We must first love ourselves, that teaches us to love our fellow brother who we see every day. Then by loving our fellow brother (and sister), this will open our eyes to learning about God and who He is and how to properly serve Him. While our health, our well-being (wealth), and our personal relationships make 95% of who we are; we must still remember to love our fellow brothers and sisters, and to love the God who created us.
I wish you well.
Due Daniels