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July 13, 2012

Right Way to Pick a Husband

This was taken from author Robert Collier, and I just know it is so profound...


A girl picking a husband, if it were left to two main components to choose from - she can pick one with a lot of money and no brains, or she can pick one with no money but a lot of ability. In the former case, she will have a high time for a little while, ending most likely in divorce court (sometimes bitterly) or in her having a worthless young "rounder" on her hands with no money to pay the bills.


In the other, the start will be hard, but she is likely to end up with a happy home she has helped to build, an earnest, hard working husband who has "arrived" - and happiness.


This is certainly the better way to go; selecting things for the immediate gratification will wane; you know this and if you don't...WAKE UP...


In Life you gotta think long term in things, especially in terms of marriage. That's just the right way to pick a spouse.




Due

Journal Your Weight Loss Sure Method of Success





Keep a food journal. I saw this article on the news feed; I agree whole heartily, people who journal anything will find more success than those who don't because of the consistent in engagement and monitoring of your process. Blogging or video blogging your weight loss process can be golden.

Don't skip meals, but do skip your afternoon lunch dates. Those recommendations come from research published Friday in the Journal of the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics.
Researchers from the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center evaluated the impact of self-monitoring and diet-related behavior and patterns among overweight and obese post-menopausal women. Among the 123 women who participated in the study, they found that those who completed food journals lost about six more pounds than those who did not note their food intake. Women who skipped meals lost eight fewer pounds than those who did not miss meals, and those who ate lunch out at least once a week lost five fewer pounds than those who ate out less frequently.
Dr. Anne McTiernan, lead author of the study and professor of epidemiology at Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center, said losing weight is really just about "accountability, knowing what you're eating and how much, and how that all adds up compared with your calorie goal for losing weight."
It's difficult to change a diet if dieters are not paying close attention to what they are eating, researchers said.
"The food journal helps you keep track, in real time, of what you are eating," said McTiernan. "Restaurant eating, on the other hand, makes it difficult to know what you are eating, and the serving sizes are often large enough for several people. So, it's difficult to keep an account of what you eat if you don't know what's going into the food."

"Taking this action can be extremely helpful though, so it's worth it, but it means letting go of some of the spontaneity about eating," he said.
Keith Ayoob, associate professor of pediatrics at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, said food journaling can be difficult because it forces dieters to "confront everything in real time."
"If you weigh 250 pounds, you won't get down to 125 overnight," she said. "That might take a couple of years, or you might need medical help. The good news is that you get major health benefits by just reducing by 5 to 10 percent of your starting weight."
The biggest obstacle in losing weight is setting unrealistic goals, McTiernan said.
Because of this, people make more informed choices.
"There's no 'I'll deal with it later' thing," said Ayoob. "When you write it down now, you have to think about it now, and that means you think about whether you really want it or need it."
"There's a tendency to eat more than you would if you were eating at your desk, perhaps because it can be seen as a treat," said Ayoob. "Unfortunately, people often fail to compensate for such treat occasions, so it results in weight gain."
Nevertheless, most experts said that the study offers confirmation, not necessarily new information, on the need for accountability while trying to lose weight.
Self-monitoring is a long-established mainstay of cognitive behavioral therapy, and the evidence has long been clear that it improves outcomes, said Dr. David Katz, director of the Yale Prevention Center.
"This study merely observed association between such behaviors and the outcomes, so does not prove cause and effect," Katz said. "Perhaps those people who kept the best journals are just the most meticulous people and adhere the best to any program.
"If so, it is character, rather than behavior, that is the real cause for the better outcome," said Katz.
For those interested in keeping a food journal, researchers gave the following tips to study participants:
o Be honest - record everything you eat
o Be accurate - measure portions, read labels
o Be complete - include details such as how the food was prepared, and the addition of any toppings or condiments
o Be consistent - always carry your food diary with you or use a diet-tracking application on your smart phone

July 12, 2012

Life is Not a Game!

Lot's of people say "Life is not a game." They say this because of how serious life appears to be for so many people. You have killings, rapes, drugs, scandals, rich, poor, and many other things including DEATH that make you look at your best friend and say, "Man life ain't no joke."


I agree, life is no joke, but I disagree that it is not a game. Life is a game. When you view it like such, you might fair better in life. What I mean is that when you look at sporting events, these things are taken very seriously. In basketball games guys are ready to go to blows, fights start, the passion kicks in and most viewers will sit back and say, "It's just a freaking game."


Make your best Moves
It's just a freaking game, but we pin guys as losers if they do not win a NBA title before their playing days are over. So if a game can be taken that seriously, certainly you can argue that it is not a game anymore. On the other hand, you can argue that it is as serious as life, and they are both games. Life is a game in which to come out successful is the winning quest. To play a game at a high level, you need to be prepared!


PERIOD!


The key is not to play the life game competitively as a basketball event. Instead you are to play it like it like the game of golf. You play against the course. You are playing against life itself. This way, if another man is minus18 (-18) and you are minus 7 (-7) you are still winning against the course.


In sporting events there is a lot of visualization going on for the top athletes. This is part of their preparation. A lot of strategy, study, and mental rehearsal in order to be best prepared for the game. We get it confused thinking we don't have to do the same thing when it comes to "real life." 


What a joke!


Michael Jordan and Scottie Pippen use to sit down and strategise how they would beat their opponents. They sat down for early morning breakfast discussing how they would destroy Isaiah Thomas, Patrick Ewing, and any other would-be competitors. This certainly takes planning. What is your plan in life?


The average person (don't settle for average) does not sit back and plan their life. The Bible clearly gives the blueprint of how we should go about our lives. Have a clear plan for how you want your life to go. 


Have you ever wondered how the heck you got to a certain low point in your life. I was there once, and I was wondering to myself, this is not what I thought about doing when I was a youngster. At the time, I was cleaning toilets and taking out trashes.


Now that is not all that bad, someone has to do these jobs; and I would leave it to the guy who walks into a public bathroom and is fed up with the nastiness and filth of the restroom and goes out and makes a business plan that shows how he will keep all bathrooms clean. He hires guys and gals dedicated to cleanliness. So when you go into the bathroom, it is clean, and you don't have to feel sorry for the janitor because he or she planned to be there, they enjoy what they do and they do their best.


However, for me that was not how my story went as a child. So to find myself there when I wanted to be somewhere else, I asked myself, "How the heck did I get here?" I truly felt like the wind was blowing me any which way and I would land wherever it wanted. That is a position of absolutely no control; I didn't like that position. You probably don't either.


That is when I began to write out a plan. I pictured in my mind how my life would go as I would be most happiest with it. I pictured it clearly and began to write it out. I can see it, I can feel it, I can touch it; and it is a game to me. The more of it I get actualized, the more points I get.


It is that simple; it is a game and when you say or think life is a game, the average person is thinking you don't take it serious. 


NOT SO!


I take it as serious as Lebron James took his first winning title run in 2012 when he stopped all the clowning around, twittering, and all the stuff that clouds your focus. I take it as serious as Mike and Scottie took their six title runs. I take it as serious as any successful person takes their craft. Yeah it may be a sports game to most people, but the best at their craft take it serious. You gotta be all in in life; you gotta take the game seriously. You gotta work hard, you gotta know how to win.


You can't win if you are not in control. Get in control. "Life is not a game" some say, but I think it is and the winners live above average lives in the present; but the BIG WINNERS learn how to live forever. Play this game, play to win, have fun.






Due Daniels


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