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October 21, 2008

Thinking You're Too Much


Thinking you're too much can post a problem in any kind of relationship because you begin to believe you are more than you actually are.  When you begin thinking you're too much; this can and will tip the scale on some if not all of your relationships.

What is "thinking you're too much?"  Well for one let's say you do something big on your job that a lot of people gave you credit for and everyone is happy you did this.  Coming in the next day as nothing significant happened would be humble and normal.  This may even help you receive more praise.  However, coming in and wanting flowers thrown at your feet underneath a red carpet is not normal.  In relationships; we as humans tend to believe we are too big to have to do certain things or deal with certain situations once we have reached a made up plateau.

We start to believe we don't have to do chores in the house, we don't have to do the extra on the job, we don't have to call people back immediately.  This is called getting relaxed, when in life, you should never actually be relaxed.  When you begin to turn into this direction, you will not notice it of course, but your associates and friends will notice a strain on the relationship.

Thinking you're too much is, to me, a disease that you don't know you have and the end is very deadly.  Take inventory of your life from time to time and make sure you haven't got to the point where you are too much.  I hope this edifies your relationships.

Peace from Dues Spot


Due Danielz

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